Thursday, October 17, 2013

I'm Lost


"How do I make her love me again? We were together 8 yrs. She's started seeing someone else and ignores me. I can't move on.  My Dad is sick and may be dying and my Son might spend the rest of is life in jail. I'm lost. Help me."

I'm sorry you are going through all that.  Unfortunately, you can't make someone love you. If she's started to see someone else then you need to respect her decision and give her space. Trying to keep in constant contactwith her is only going to push her further away. The best thing for you to do is focus on you, your Dad, and your Son. Sometimes relationships end for no reason but if  she gave you a reason for ending it, you should  try to understand it and learn from it. You need to first love yourself, you are all you need. Everyone else is a blessing and a bonus. Don't take that for granted. Look inside you, fix what needs fixing and find the true inner you. Then you well be able to move on. If it was meant to be, it will be. I hope all works out for you and you find what you need

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